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The D-Day Dodgers were Allied servicemen who fought in Italy during the Second World War . The D-Day Dodgers also inspired a popular wartime soldier's song ( Roud Folk Song Index no. 10499).

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75-511: A rumour spread during the war that the term was publicized by Viscountess Astor , a Member of the British Parliament , who supposedly used the expression in public after a disillusioned serviceman in Italy signed a letter to her as being from a " D-Day Dodger". However, there is no record that she actually said this, in or out of Parliament, and she herself denied ever saying it. Reference to

150-532: A German invasion of Britain , Lady Astor commented: "It is the complete answer to the terrible lie that the so-called ' Cliveden Set ' was pro-Fascist." Lady Astor believed her party and her husband caused her retirement in 1945. As the Conservatives believed she had become a political liability in the final years of World War II, her husband said that if she stood for office again the family would not support her. She conceded but, according to contemporary reports,

225-470: A "D-Day Dodger" was bitingly sarcastic, given the steady stream of Allied service personnel who were being killed or wounded in combat on the Italian front. A "dodger" is someone who avoids something; the soldiers in Italy felt that their sacrifices were being ignored after the invasion of Normandy , and a "D-Day Dodger" was a reference to someone who was supposedly avoiding real combat by serving in Italy, whereas

300-644: A 1939 speech, the Labour MP Stafford Cripps called her "The Member for Berlin". Astor's fear of Catholics increased and she made a speech saying that a Catholic conspiracy was subverting the Foreign Office. Based on her opposition to Communists, she insulted Stalin 's role (from 1941) as one of the Allied Powers during the war. Her speeches became rambling and incomprehensible; an opponent said that debating her had become "like playing squash with

375-599: A bitingly sarcastic song to the tune of the popular German song " Lili Marleen ", called "The Ballad of the D-Day Dodgers". This song has also been attributed to Lance-Sergeant Harry Pynn of the Tank Rescue Section, 19 Army Fire Brigade. However, there is no record that she actually said this, in or out of Parliament, and she denied ever saying it. When told she was one of the people listed to be arrested, imprisoned and face possible execution in " The Black Book " under

450-453: A candidate after her husband succeeded to the peerage and House of Lords in 1919. He had enjoyed a promising political career for several years before World War I in the House of Commons ; after his father's death, he succeeded to his father's peerage as the 2nd Viscount Astor . He automatically became a member of the House of Lords and consequently had to forfeit his seat of Plymouth Sutton in

525-519: A dish of scrambled eggs ". On one occasion she accosted a young American soldier outside the Houses of Parliament . "Would you like to go in?" she asked. The GI replied: "You are the sort of woman my mother told me to avoid". The period from 1937 to the end of the war was personally difficult for Astor: in January of that year she lost her sister Phyllis, followed by her only surviving brother in 1938. In 1940,

600-555: A divorce and moved back to Mirador to try to run her father's household but was unsuccessful. In 1904, Nancy Shaw took a tour of England, taking with her her son Bobbie, of whom she had gained custody. She fell in love with the country. Since she had been so happy there, her father suggested she move to England. Seeing that she was reluctant, Nancy's father said it was also her mother's wish, and he suggested she take her younger sister Phyllis with her. Nancy and Phyllis moved together to England in 1905. Their older sister Irene had married

675-513: A drawback for her political career. After Bobby Shaw was arrested, Gertrude Ely, a Pennsylvania Railroad heiress from Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania offered to provide a guided tour to Moscow for Lady Astor and Bobby. Because of public comments by her and her son during this period, her political career suffered. Her son made many flattering statements about the Soviet Union , and Astor often disparaged it because she did not approve of Communism. In

750-492: A hypocrite, as she was divorced. He said that the reform bill that she opposed would allow women to have the same kind of divorce she had in America. Bottomley was later imprisoned for fraud, which Astor used to her advantage in other campaigns. Astor made friends among women MPs, including members of the other parties. Margaret Wintringham was elected after Astor had been in office for two years. Astor befriended Ellen Wilkinson ,

825-513: A load of this. Don't stand up on a platform and talk a load of piss. You're the nation's sweetheart, the nation's pride We think your mouth's too bloody wide. We are the D-Day Dodgers, in Sunny Italy. When you look 'round the mountains, through the mud and rain You'll find the crosses, some which bear no name. Heartbreak, and toil and suffering gone The boys beneath them slumber on They were

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900-653: A major marketing and processing centre. In 1874, he won a construction contract with the Chesapeake and Ohio Railroad , using former contacts from his service in the Civil War . By 1892, when Nancy was thirteen years old, her father had re-established his wealth and built a sizeable home. Chiswell Langhorne later moved his family to an estate, known as Mirador , in Albemarle County, Virginia . Nancy Langhorne had four sisters and three brothers who survived childhood. All of

975-777: A meeting of the Foreign Affairs Select Committee]. She turned upon him and said, 'Only a Jew like you would dare to be rude to me.' He replied, 'I should like very much to smack you in your face.' I think she is a little mad. David Feldman of the Pears Institute for the Study of Antisemitism has also related that whilst attending a dinner at the Savoy Hotel in 1934, Astor asked the League of Nations ' High Commissioner for Refugees whether he believed "that there must be something in

1050-402: A meeting, she asked Joseph Stalin directly why he had slaughtered so many Russians, but many of her criticisms were translated as less challenging statements. Some of her conservative supporters feared she had "gone soft" on Communism; her question to Stalin may have been translated correctly only because he insisted of being told what she had said. The Conservatives felt that her son's praise of

1125-547: A member of the Labour Party (and a former Communist). Astor later proposed creating a "Women's Party", but the female Labour MPs opposed that, as their party was then in office and had promised them positions. Over time, political differences separated the women MPs; by 1931 Astor became hostile to female Labour members such as Susan Lawrence . Nancy Astor's accomplishments in the House of Commons were relatively minor. She never held

1200-654: A political circle called Milner's Kindergarten . Considered liberal in their age, the group advocated unity and equality among English-speaking people and a continuance or expansion of the British Empire . With Milner's Kindergarten, Astor began her association with Philip Kerr . The friendship became important in her religious life; they met shortly after Kerr had suffered a spiritual crisis regarding his once devout Catholicism . They were attracted to Christian Science , to which they both eventually converted. After converting, she began to proselytise for that faith and played

1275-602: A position with much influence and or any post of ministerial rank although her time in Commons saw four Conservative Prime Ministers in office. The Duchess of Atholl (elected to Parliament in 1923, four years after Lady Astor) rose to higher levels in the Conservative Party before Astor. Astor felt if she had more position in the party, she would be less free to criticise her party's government. During this period, Nancy Astor continued to be active outside government by supporting

1350-580: A preference for the earlier soldiers. It was generally believed that Lady Astor, during a World War II speech, referred to the men of the Eighth Army who were fighting in the Italian campaign as the " D-Day Dodgers ", suggesting they were avoiding the "real war" in France and the future invasion. The Allied soldiers in Italy were so incensed that Major Hamish Henderson of the 51st Highland Division composed

1425-466: A role in Kerr's conversion to it. She also tried to convert Hilaire Belloc 's daughters to Christian Science, which led to a rift between them. Despite having Catholic friends such as Belloc for a time, Astor had religious views that included a strong vein of anti-Catholicism . Christopher Sykes argues that Kerr, an ex-Catholic, influenced this, but others argue that Astor's Protestant Virginia origins are

1500-478: A streak of cruelty. On hearing of the death of a political enemy, she expressed her pleasure. When people complained, she did not apologise but said, "I'm a Virginian; we shoot to kill." Angus McDonnell , a Virginia friend, angered her by marrying without consulting her on his choice. She later told him, regarding his maiden speech, that he "really must do better than that." During the course of her adult life, Astor alienated many with her sharp words as well. During

1575-469: A sufficient explanation for her Anti-Catholic views. (Anti-Catholicism was also tied to historic national rivalries.) She attempted to discourage the hiring of Jews or Catholics to senior positions at The Observer , a newspaper owned by her husband. In 1927, she reportedly told James Louis Garvin that if he hired a Catholic, "bishops would be there within a week." Several elements of Viscountess Astor's life influenced her first campaign, but she became

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1650-536: Is alleged to have told one Nazi official that she supported German rearmament because the country was "surrounded by Catholics". She also told Ribbentrop, the German ambassador, who later became the foreign minister of Germany, that Hitler looked too much like Charlie Chaplin to be taken seriously. Those statements are the only documented incidents of her direct expressions to Nazis. Astor became increasingly harsh in her anti-Catholic and anti-communist sentiments. After

1725-472: Is the beginning of our era. I am glad to have suffered for this." Viscountess Astor was not the first woman elected to the Westminster Parliament. That was achieved by Constance Markievicz , who was the first woman MP elected to Westminster in 1918, but as she was an Irish Republican , she did not take her seat. As a result, Lady Astor is sometimes erroneously referred to as the first woman MP, or

1800-547: The Astorgruppe as one of the circles "that want a fresh understanding with Germany and who hold that it would not basically be impossible to achieve". The Sunday newspaper Reynolds News , also reported, "Cliveden has been the centre of friendship with German influence". To that end, several of her friends and associates, especially the Marquess of Lothian, were involved in the policy of appeasement of Nazi Germany . Astor, however,

1875-546: The House of Lords . She was well-liked in her constituency, as well as the United States during the 1920s, but her success is generally believed to have declined in the following decades. In May 1922, Astor was guest of honour at a Pan-American conference held by the League of Women Voters in Baltimore, Maryland . Astor became the first President of the newly-formed Electrical Association For Women in 1924. She chaired

1950-521: The Palestine problem". Astor was also deeply involved in the so-called Cliveden Set , a coterie of aristocrats that was described by one journalist as having subscribed to their own form of fascism . In that capacity, Astor was considered a "legendary hostess" for the group that in 1936 welcomed Hitler's foreign minister, Joachim von Ribbentrop , who communicated to Hitler regarding the likelihood of an agreement between Germany and England and singled out

2025-502: The River Thames ; it was a wedding gift from Astor's father. Nancy Astor developed as a prominent hostess for the social elite. The Astors also owned a grand London house, No. 4 St. James's Square , now the premises of the Naval & Military Club . A blue plaque unveiled in 1987 commemorates Astor at St. James's Square. Through her many social connections, Lady Astor became involved in

2100-591: The vino , always on the spree. Eighth Army scroungers and their tanks We live in Rome – among the Yanks. We are the D-Day Dodgers, over here in Italy. We landed at Salerno , a holiday with pay, Jerry brought the band down to greet us on our way Showed us the sights and gave us tea, We all sang songs, the beer was free. We are the D-Day Dodgers, way out in Italy. The Volturno and Cassino were taken in our stride. We didn't have to fight there. We just went for

2175-427: The 'halo effect' of women taking over their husband's parliamentary seat, a process which accounted for the election of ten women MPs (nearly a third of the women elected to parliament) between the two world wars. Astor's Parliamentary career was the most public phase of her life. She gained attention as a woman and as someone who did not follow the rules, often attributed to her American upbringing. On her first day in

2250-487: The 1920s, Astor made several effective speeches in Parliament, and gained support for her Intoxicating Liquor (Sale to Persons under 18) Bill (nicknamed "Lady Astor's Bill"), raising the legal age for consuming alcohol in a public house from 14 to 18. Her wealth and persona brought attention to women who were serving in government. She worked to recruit women into the civil service , the police force, education reform , and

2325-530: The British had brought into the country, such as the tomato and soda water . During the First World War, "Dear Old Blighty" was a common sentimental reference, suggesting a longing for home by soldiers in the trenches . The term was particularly used by World War I poets such as Wilfred Owen and Siegfried Sassoon . During that war, a " Blighty wound " – a wound serious enough to require recuperation away from

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2400-401: The British public. She rallied the supporters of the current government, moderated her Prohibition views, and used women's meetings to gain the support of female voters. A by-election was held on 28 November 1919, and she took up her seat in the House on 1 December as a Unionist (also known as "Tory") Member of Parliament. Astor was the first woman to be elected through what has been termed

2475-473: The D-Day Dodgers, who'll stay in Italy. So listen all you people, over land and foam Even though we've parted, our hearts are close to home. When we return we hope you'll say "You did your little bit, though far away All of the D-Day Dodgers, way out there in Italy." Several books have used the term "D-Day Dodgers" in their titles. Nancy Astor, Viscountess Astor Nancy Witcher Langhorne Astor, Viscountess Astor , (19 May 1879 – 2 May 1964)

2550-561: The English aristocratic style. The couple were well matched, as both were American expatriates with similar temperaments. They were of the same age and even born on the same day, 19 May 1879. Astor shared some of Nancy's moral attitudes and had a heart condition that may have contributed to his restraint. After the marriage, the Astors moved into Cliveden , a lavish estate in Buckinghamshire on

2625-485: The English word "blight", meaning epidemic. It's an example of typical post-imperial British self-effacement. Blighty is commonly used as a term of endearment by the expatriate British community or those on holiday to refer to home. In Hobson-Jobson , an 1886 historical dictionary of Anglo-Indian words, Henry Yule and Arthur Coke Burnell explained that the word came to be used in British India for several things

2700-566: The House of Commons, she was called to order for chatting with a fellow House member, not realising that she was the person who was causing the commotion. She learned to dress more sedately and avoided the bars and smoking rooms frequented by the men. Early in her first term, MP Horatio Bottomley wanted to dominate the "soldier's friend" issue and, believing her to be an obstacle, sought to ruin her political career. He capitalised on her opposition to divorce reform and her efforts to maintain wartime alcohol restrictions. Bottomley portrayed her as

2775-471: The House of Commons. With this change, Lady Astor decided to contest the by-election for the vacant Parliamentary seat . Astor had not been connected with the women's suffrage movement in the British Isles. However, she was met as she arrived at Paddington station on the day after her election by a crowd of suffragettes, including unnamed women who had been imprisoned and on hunger strike. One said, "This

2850-506: The Jews themselves that had brought them persecution throughout the ages". Dr Feldman acknowledged, however, that it was "not an unusual view" and explained it "was a conventional idea in the UK at the time". Some years later, during a visit to New York in 1947, she apparently "clashed" with reporters, renouncing her antisemitism, telling one that she was "not anti-Jewish but gangsterism isn't going to solve

2925-466: The Labour candidate. In 1931, Bobby Shaw, her son from her first marriage, was arrested for homosexual offences. As her son had previously shown tendencies towards alcoholism and instability, Astor's friend Philip Kerr , now the 11th Marquess of Lothian, suggested the arrest might act as a catalyst for him to change his behaviour, but he was incorrect. Astor made a disastrous speech stating that alcohol use

3000-424: The Marquess of Lothian died. He had been her closest Christian Scientist friend even after her husband converted. George Bernard Shaw's wife died three years later. During the war, Astor's husband had a heart attack . After this, their marriage grew cold, likely due to her subsequent discomfort with his health problems. She ran a hospital for Canadian soldiers as she had during the First World War, but openly expressed

3075-564: The Soviet Union served as a coup for its propaganda and so they were unhappy with her tour. Astor was reportedly a supporter of the Nazis as a solution to what she saw as the "world problems" of Jews and communists. In 1938, she met Joseph P. Kennedy Sr. , who was a well-documented antisemite . She asked him not to take offence at her anti-Catholic views and wrote, "I'm glad you are smart enough not to take my [views] personally". She highlighted

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3150-527: The United States to become a problem, that "Jewish pundits in New York and Los Angeles" were already making noises contrived to "set a match to the fuse of the world". Astor commented to Kennedy that Hitler would have to do worse than "give a rough time... to the killers of Christ " for Britain and America to risk "Armageddon to save them. The wheel of history swings round as the Lord would have it. Who are we to stand in

3225-483: The artist Charles Dana Gibson and became a model for his Gibson Girls . Nancy Shaw had already become known in English society as an interesting and witty American when numerous wealthy young American women had married into the aristocracy . Her tendency to be saucy in conversation but religiously devout and almost prudish in behaviour confused many of the English men but pleased some of the older socialites. Nancy also began to show her skill at winning over critics. She

3300-498: The basis of her earlier work with the Canadian soldiers, allies of the British, charitable work during the war, her financial resources for the campaign and her ability to improvise. Her audiences appreciated her wit and ability to turn the tables on hecklers . Once a man asked her what the Astors had done for him and she responded with, "Why, Charlie, you know," and later had a picture taken with him. This informal style baffled yet amused

3375-499: The couple reconciled before his death on 30 September 1952. Blighty " Blighty " is a British English slang term for Great Britain, or often specifically England. Though it was used throughout the 1800s in the Indian subcontinent to mean an English or British visitor, it was first used during the Boer War in the specific meaning of homeland for the English or British, and it

3450-409: The development and expansion of nursery schools for children's education. She was introduced to the issue by socialist Margaret McMillan , who believed that her late sister helped guide her in life. Lady Astor was initially sceptical of that aspect, but the two women later became close. Astor used her wealth to aid their social efforts. Although active in charitable efforts, Astor became noted for

3525-408: The fact that she had a number of Catholic friends. Astor and Kennedy's correspondence is reportedly filled with antisemitic language, and Edward J. Renehan Jr. wrote: As fiercely anti-Communist as they were anti-Semitic, Kennedy and Astor looked upon Adolf Hitler as a welcome solution to both of these "world problems" (Nancy's phrase). ... Kennedy replied that he expected the " Jew media " in

3600-599: The fighting which took place during campaigns such as Operation Avalanche and the subsequent Battle of Monte Cassino . Although Hamish Henderson did not write the song, he did collect different versions of it and it is attributed to him in the sleeve notes of the Ian Campbell Folk Group 's "Contemporary Campbells". Many different variations have been recorded. We're the D-Day Dodgers out in Italy Always on

3675-549: The first ever International Conference of Women In Science, Industry and Commerce, a three-day event held London in July 1925, organised by Caroline Haslett for the Women's Engineering Society in co-operation with other leading women's groups. Astor hosted a large gathering at her home in St James's to enable networking amongst the international delegates, and spoke strongly of her support of and

3750-554: The first woman elected to the UK Parliament, rather than the first woman MP to take her seat in Parliament. Markievicz said Lady Astor was "of the upper classes, out of touch". Countess Markievicz had been in Holloway prison for Sinn Féin activities during her election. Astor was hampered in the popular campaign for her published and at times vocal teetotalism and her ignorance of current political issues. Astor appealed to voters on

3825-414: The need for women to work in the fields of science, engineering and technology. She was concerned about the treatment of juvenile victims of crime: "The work of new MPs, such as Nancy Astor, led to a Departmental Committee on Sexual Offences Against Young People, which reported in 1925." The 1930s were a decade of personal and professional difficulty for Lady Astor. In 1929, she won a narrow victory over

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3900-544: The original lyrics. Many Allied personnel in Italy had reason to be bitter, as the bulk of material support for the Allied armies went to Northwest Europe after the invasion of Normandy. They also noted sardonically that they had participated in several " D-days " of their own before the landings in Normandy became popularly known as "D-Day". The expression was used to refer to the day that any military operation began (with "H-hour" being

3975-605: The passage of the Munich Agreement , she said that if the Czech refugees fleeing Nazi oppression were communists, they should seek asylum with the Soviets, instead of the British. While supporters of appeasement felt that to be out of line, the Marquess of Lothian encouraged her comments. When World War II began, Astor admitted that she had made mistakes, and voted against Chamberlain, but left-wing hostility to her politics remained. In

4050-683: The peerage and entered the House of Lords , she entered politics as a member of the Unionist Party (now the Conservative Party) and won his former seat of Plymouth Sutton in 1919, becoming the first woman to sit as an MP in the House of Commons . During her time in Parliament, Astor was an advocate for temperance , welfare , education reform and women's rights . She was also an ardent anti-Catholic and anti-communist, and received criticism for her antisemitism and sympathetic view of Nazism . Astor served in Parliament until 1945 when she

4125-576: The reality was anything but - as the numerous allied war cemeteries in locations such as Monte Cassino testify. Several versions of a song called "D-Day Dodgers", set to the tune " Lili Marleen " (a favourite song of all troops in the North African Campaign – the British Eighth Army was a veteran formation from that theatre before landing in Italy), were sung with gusto in the last months of

4200-510: The request of her friend Felix Frankfurter , a future US Supreme Court justice who was Jewish, Astor intervened with the Nazis in Vienna and secured the release of Frankfurter's Jewish uncle, Solomon. Astor occasionally met with Nazi officials in keeping with Neville Chamberlain 's policies, and she was known to distrust and to dislike British Foreign Secretary (later Prime Minister) Anthony Eden . She

4275-785: The ride. Anzio and Sangro were all forlorn. We did not do a thing from dusk to dawn. For we are the D-Day Dodgers, over here in Italy. On our way to Florence we had a lovely time. We ran a bus to Rimini right through the Gothic Line . On to Bologna we did go. Then we went bathing in the Po . For we are the D-Day Dodgers, over here in Italy. Once we had a blue light that we were going home Back to dear old Blighty , never more to roam. Then somebody said in France you'll fight. We said fuck that, we'll just sit tight, The windy D-Day Dodgers, out in Sunny Italy. Now Lady Astor , get

4350-643: The sisters were known for their "good looks". Nancy and her sister Irene both attended St. Catherine's Episcopal School in Richmond, followed by a finishing school in New York City. There Nancy met her first husband, the socialite Robert Gould Shaw II , a first cousin of Colonel Robert Gould Shaw , who commanded the 54th Massachusetts Regiment, the first unit in the Union Army to be composed of African Americans. They married in New York City on 27 October 1897, when she

4425-424: The song "I'm Glad I've Got a Bit of a Blighty One" (1916), in which she played a soldier delighted to have been wounded and in hospital. "When I think about my dugout," she sang, "where I dare not stick my mug out... I'm glad I've got a bit of a blighty one". Another music hall hit was " Take Me Back to Dear Old Blighty " (1917). The song is sung by Cicely Courtneidge in the 1962 film The L-Shaped Room . The term

4500-485: The specific start time of an operation beginning on D-day), but the popular press turned it into an expression synonymous with the Normandy landings only. Italian campaign veterans noted that they had been in action for eleven months before the Normandy landings, and some of those had served in North Africa even before that. The numerous Commonwealth War Graves Commission cemeteries across Italy are compelling evidence of

4575-527: The trenches but not serious enough to kill or maim the victim – was hoped for by many, and sometimes self-inflicted . An early example of the usage of a derivative of the Arabic wilāyah being used to refer to Britain is after diplomat I'tisam-ud-Din returned from Britain back to the Mughal Empire. The locals nicknamed him 'Bilayet Munshi' due to him being the first South Asian (c. 1765) to travel to what

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4650-463: The war, and at post-war reunions. The song was written in November 1944 by Lance-Sergeant Harry Pynn of the Tank Rescue Section, 19 Army Fire Brigade, who was with the 78th Infantry Division just south of Bologna , Italy . There were many variations on verses and even the chorus, but the song generally and sarcastically referred to how easy their life in Italy was. There was no mention of Lady Astor in

4725-491: The way of the future?" Astor made various other documented anti-Semitic comments, such as her complaint that the Observer newspaper, which was owned at the time by her husband, was "full of homosexuals and Jews", and her tense antisemitic exchange with MP Alan Graham in 1938, as described by Harold Nicolson : In the corridor a friend of mine named Alan Graham came up to Nancy and said, 'I do not think you behaved very well' [in

4800-402: Was 18. The marriage was unhappy. Shaw's friends said Nancy became puritanical and rigid after marriage. Her friends said that Shaw was an abusive alcoholic . During their four-year marriage, they had one son, Robert Gould Shaw III (called Bobbie). Nancy left Shaw numerous times during their marriage, the first during their honeymoon. In 1903, Nancy's mother died; at the time, Nancy Shaw gained

4875-465: Was also referenced in the song "All American Alien Boy" by Ian Hunter ("I'm just a whitey from Blighty"), from the 1976 album of the same name . Folksinger Ian Robb 's album Rose and Crown features a topical parody of the traditional song " Maggie May ", about the Falklands War . The song contains the lines: "When I get back to Blighty, I'll give thanks to The Almighty / Whether Maggie's little war

4950-529: Was an American-born British politician who was the first woman seated as a Member of Parliament (MP), serving from 1919 to 1945. Astor was born in Danville, Virginia and raised in Greenwood, Virginia . Her first marriage, to socialite Robert Gould Shaw II , was unhappy and ended in divorce. She then moved to England and married American-born Englishman Waldorf Astor in 1906. After her second husband succeeded to

5025-474: Was both irritated and angry about her situation. Lady Astor struggled in retirement, which put further strain on her marriage. In a speech commemorating her 25 years in parliament, she stated that her retirement was forced on her and that it should please the men of Britain. The couple began travelling separately and soon were living apart. Lord Astor also began moving towards left-wing politics in his last years, and that exacerbated their differences. However,

5100-608: Was known as the Bilayet. Blighty , a humorous weekly magazine, was issued free to British troops during the First World War. It contained short stories, poems, cartoons, paintings, and drawings, with contributions from men on active service. It was distributed by the War Office , the Admiralty and the Red Cross, and subsidised through donations and sales to the general public. The magazine

5175-638: Was not until World War I that use of the term became widespread. The word ultimately derives from the Urdu word Viletī , (from a regional Hindustani language with the use of b replacing v) meaning 'foreign', which more specifically came to mean 'European', and 'British; English' during the time of the British Raj . The Bengali word is a loan of Indian Persian vilāyatī ( ولایاتی ), from vilāyat ( ولایت ) meaning 'Iran' and later 'Europe' or 'Britain', ultimately from Arabic wilāyah ولاية‎ meaning 'state, province'. The term subsequently gained an ironic connotation in its closeness to

5250-425: Was once asked by an English woman, "Have you come to get our husbands?" Her unexpected response, "If you knew the trouble I had getting rid of mine...", charmed her listeners and displayed the wit for which she became known. She married an Englishman, albeit one born in the United States, Waldorf Astor . When he was twelve, his father, William Waldorf Astor had moved the family to England and raised his children in

5325-431: Was persuaded to step down, as her outspokenness had made her a political liability in the final years of the Second World War . She retired from politics and largely withdrew from public life following the death of her husband. Astor died in 1964 at Grimsthorpe Castle in Lincolnshire and was interred at her family estate at Cliveden . Nancy Witcher Langhorne was born at the Langhorne House in Danville, Virginia . She

5400-453: Was revived in 1939 and continued until 1958. In his First World War autobiography Good-Bye to All That (1929), the writer Robert Graves attributes the term "Blitey" to the Hindustani word for "home". He writes: "The men are pessimistic but cheerful. They all talk about getting a 'cushy' one to send them back to 'Blitey'." The music hall artiste Vesta Tilley had a hit in 1916 with

5475-484: Was the eighth of eleven children born to railroad businessman Chiswell Dabney Langhorne and Nancy Witcher Keene. Following the abolition of slavery, Chiswell struggled to make his operations profitable, and with the destruction of the war, the family lived in near-poverty for several years before Nancy was born. After her birth, her father gained a job as a tobacco auctioneer in Danville, the centre of bright leaf tobacco and

5550-644: Was the reason for England's national cricket team being defeated by the Australian national cricket team . Both the English and Australian teams objected to that statement. Astor remained oblivious to her growing unpopularity almost to the end of her career. Astor's friendship with George Bernard Shaw helped her through some of her problems although his own nonconformity caused friction between them. They held opposing political views and had very different temperaments. However, his own tendency to make controversial statements or put her into awkward situations proved to be

5625-476: Was worried that the group might be viewed as a pro-German conspiracy, and her husband, William Waldorf Astor, wrote in a letter to the Times , "To link our weekends with any particular clique is as absurd as is the allegation that those of us who desire to establish better relations with Germany or Italy are pro-Nazis or pro-Fascists". The Cliveden Set was also depicted by war agitators as the prime movers for peace. At

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